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Question Posted Tuesday July 15 2008, 6:44 am

I am a 16 year old girl and basically i went out with this boy in my secondary school. I was great friends with him before we went out and now i have had to say goodbye to him and delete his phone number because he is always mean to me,he can never be nice and it upsets me when i speek to him. I realised the other day that he has always liked another girl in my secondary school who was a girl i hated. He used to tell me he has no feelings and i now realise what he meant by that is that he had no feelings for me.While i was going out with him his best friend was always trying to break us up and trying to kiss me and take me away from him. He even told my best freind that he will break us up anyway he can. I found out that he was telling my boyfriend lies that i had kissed him,my boyfriend believed him. we broke up a couple of weeks ago and i don't know why i called him but i did and he was very rude he even asked me why i was calling him. I felt that my boyfriend was never there for me when i really needed someone to care for me because when my grandparents died he would laugh when i was crying in school. He never even said i am sorry!Then my parents got divorced and i felt i had no one who could help me. He never bought me anything for my birthday not even a card when we was going out. Now his bestfriend is going out with someone that used to be in my secondary school and i am feeling like i want to break them up i need some advice because he broke me up with my boyfriend but maybe it is not the best thing to do????maybe i should leave him alone please advice me! Another thing is that i now feel that i like this boy from my secondary school who asked me out and was always there for me he bought me a present when i was hurt and i never forget that,he sent me a text last week saying do you want to be with me? and i texted back saying yes and now i have not heard from him.I think it was his brother using his phone.He seems to be ignoring my texts now.Please also advice me on him? I am feeling very confused!because i am trying to work for my AS exam and always looking for a message from him. please advice me

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scootermclisle answered Tuesday July 15 2008, 8:05 am:
Um, relax? Honestly, you just told a long story with no options. You should not go for any of these people, and you shouldn't try to breakup that guy and his girlfriend. That's a scummy thing to do, and he probably won't even want to be with you after that. My advice is to find someone new.

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