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Why does it hurt so much?
Hello Cory...how are you doing? I'm a confused 15 year old gilr & I'm hoping maybe you can help. I have a boyfriend that I love very much & wouldn't mind spending the rest of my life with. We have been goin out for a little over half of a year. I also have an exboyfriend that I am still close friends with and we talk all the time about our love lives...and he still claims that he loves me, but I don't have feelings for him in that way anymore. Anyways, when he was with his gf (now his x) he told me that deep down he still loved me, but then he broke up with her. Now he has a new girlfriend and he says that he no longer loves me (this all happened in two days by the way)..I ask him how he stopped lovin me in just two days and he says that his new gf told him somethin that made him look at things from a different perspective. REMEMBER, I sitll have my boyfriend that I love more than ever.... But when my ex told me he moved on I figured I should be happy b/c I had been telling him that he should stop loving me and move on...but instead I was crushed, hurt, & even began to cry. I don't know why it had that effect on me, considering I only love him as a friend. Do you have an explanation for all this? Thanks a bunch!
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when you go out with someone and truly mean it, your stuck with them forever - part of your heart will always stick with them. this funny lil crushed feeling is just a showing of that... it's just hard to watch someone who was yours which you loved become someone elses. don't fall for the "i still love you to the deepest" deal... hang your heart on your boyfriend and just let your ex go. yes, there may be some pain involved but it'll be better in the long run. focus on your current boyfriend and things will smooth out. Good Luck with your bf and love life. Hope I Helped... ~Cory~
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