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My boyfriend and I have been going out for like 4 months. HE IS TOTALLY SHY! Please note that I'm 13 and he's 14. I tried making a move on him. I kissed him on the cheek when he was at his locker. I thought maybe this could be a good way for him to know that I wanna get closer to him. I go by his locker everyday and say the same things
"Hey, how ya doin'?" Im extremely shy and all I want is to get my first kiss before starting high school next year. How can I get him to kiss me?
Note that the only time I do get to see him is during school.
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I'm assuming you already read my link to "How to get someone to kiss you" on my advice column? If you haven't, you should read it. Here is the link: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
Try out the tips I mentioned on there.
Seeing him only at school is a problem. You can't exactly get closer to him if you only see him at school. Some things I can see right off the bat are: You don't spend enough time together, school isn't exactly a romantic environment, and having classmates and peers everywhere can be intimidating.
Since he's a totally shy guy, like you said, I can see why he isn't kissing you. At school there are students and teachers everywhere. He might not want to kiss in front of these people.
My best advice to you would be: See him outside of school. I'm assuming parents are the problem you can't see him. There are ways to see him even if your parents are like that.
Don't think "Oh, that's easy for her to say. She doesn't understand."
Because...I DO understand! My family doesn't know about my boyfriend and we've been going out for more than six months.
What are some ways to see him, you ask? Well first of all, have you tried talking to your parents about this? Have you showed them you are mature enough? Have they met him? Maybe if they met him they'd like him. If that's scratched off, you could go on "group outings". Go out wiht lots of your friends, including your boyfriend. And then you could even spend some time alone with him. You can ask your parents to pick you up after school later and have your boyfriend do the same, so you can see each other after school. You could also say your boyfriend is your bestfriend. That won't be lying either, unless you and your guy aren't that close. If they knew he was your bestfriend they'd be okay with you going to see movies with him, going to the park with him, or things like that. Those are just some ideas.
Once you've got that down, kissing will be totally easier since you won't be at school. Try the kissing tips I mentioned on that link. And if none work, just go for it yourself, I say.
If there is absolutely no way to get out of school, you're going to have to be patient. If you want to kiss him so badly, go for it yourself. If he is really shy like you say, he might not be ready to kiss yet. If that's the case, you'll have to be patient and wait until he is ready. Let him get to know you better so he'll be comfortable kissing you. Again, this has to do with seeing him outside of school.
If he is shy, one way to prepare him for the kiss is to talk about it. Talk about how you've never gotten your first kiss before. You hope he can give you your first kiss. Stuff like that.
Don't worry about getting a kiss before high school. Even if you don't get one, it's not like it matters. You've got your whole life to get tons of kisses ;) Plus, you want your first kiss to be special, so don't rush into it. Good luck!
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