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I like this guy, he's a senior, I'm a freshman. We don't share any usual friends or anything, and we really only talk at school unless i see him at his job or something, and he's usually busy there. There may be some attraction there, but I would like to take our relationship to the next level, by that I mean, get to know him better, perhaps a relationship somewhere down the line. How do I talk to him more and get to know him better considering the circumstances. We're really really different. Please Help!
Signed,
Hopeful
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I'm just gonna tell you the truth.
It may not be what you want to hear.
Right now your age difference is enough to prevent a romantic relationship between the two of you.
Legally...he is an adult. You are not... and having or pursuing a relationship with him may cause him problems.
Why not pursue a friendship with him instead? In a couple of years the age difference wont be such a big deal...and by then you will have some history with him and already have a base that is friendship. Which is what all healthy adult relationships are based on.
Or you could go ahead and flirt and call him and maybe go out--and maybe you'll have sex--maybe he'll dump you after he gets what he wants--and you'll be bitter--and he'll avoid you--and it'll be a big mess.
whatever you want...depends on your tolerance for bullsh*t...how much can you tolerate??????
good luck and much love
Louise
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hey girl do exactly like u were thinkin cept fist talk to HIM about it see how he feels about gettion to know you
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Hmm...for this one i'm going to have to suggest to let it go. You said he's a senior and that makes 18 or almost 18 and once he's legal and your oh-so-far-from-legal things might get rocky. It might be better off if you two were just friends.
Artiste
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Hunny... ask him on a date!!!... the longer you wait.. the less and less the chances are... the end of the year is comming fast! so try and tell him how you feel and ask him... if you ask him he will most likely say yes! go to like dinner or something (because in movies you can't really talk) because dinner is always a good way to strike up a conversation... like "what is your fav. food" etc. hope i helped! and good luck!
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