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hey all here is the 411 lol i want a boyfriend i haven't had a boyfriend ever in my life how do i get one.
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just be yourself and not someone else eventually someone will come into your life
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Maybe you should wait until he comes to you. :) My boyfriend and I were so, so very shy of each other, but eventually, after about a year of liking each other, our friend asked us out for us. If you wait, the right guy will come to you.
If you do the "flirt with guys" etc. thing, guys might think you're trying to throw yourself at them. Just act like you normally do around them. Get to be their friend, and make them laugh at every opportunity. Guys love to laugh, and girls that have a good sense of humor appeal to them. Smile, joke around with them, and just have a good time. Guys don't really care as much about your looks as girls think, so don't worry about anything in that area.
You may be lonely/bored/whatever now, but if you wait for the right guy it'll make up for all the times you ever felt lonely without him. I hope you and your future boyfriend meet soon!
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be yourself, be out there, be involved. Let people see the real you, hang around guy friends. or potential crushes... get involved in school or church. Guys will come around
Hope it works out
God Bless
aeromonkey
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Make sure you find someone that you like and that isnt only after one thing. If you have a crush on someone and you think he's the right guy for you, not one that uses girls and hurts them because you should have someone who is special and who will respect you.
i asked some of my guy friends what they find attractive about girls. The main things they said was that someone who makes them laugh is important, genuine, honest, who they can chat with for hours about everything and anything.
Here are some tips for you;
Be your self. It is important that you don't act differently around your guy because he will see right through it and think you are fake.
Be happy. If you smile you will look more approachable and friendly. He wont want to be with someone who looks unhappy all the time. Also when your with your mates and he's with his, flash him a nice flirty smile.
Give him compliments. Guys get insecure about themselves just as much as us girls so he'll love it when you boost his confidence now and then.
Find out what kinda stuff he is into. Then do some secret research on it. he'll think its cool that you like the same cool band as him or his fave movie. Don't go overboard though, if you have Everything in common with him it'll soon get boring.
Laugh at his jokes, even the bad ones. not hysterically though or he might twig what you're up to.
When you are chatting to him, gently touch him on the arm in a sweet flirty way.
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