Ok, there is this boy who I like and he dumped me for this other girl who he says is annoying. He has liked me for forever and now i really, really, like him. The other girl hated me because iwas going out with him and she said stuff behind my back. he thought we broke up and he went with the other girl. I don't know if it is because he thought he didn't have a girlfriend and he needed one quick or what. What should i do since I really like him?
~fello advicenator
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SaraLee answered Sunday June 12 2005, 10:59 pm: Okay..Wow thats a confusing little story there. But. I seriously had this same problem. My ex. We had broken up (I didn't think so) He had kissed and done other stuff with this girl, later on hes cusin told me about it. I got furious and upset that he would do that to me because i liked him so so much. But then when i talked to my ex about it he said that he had broken up with me the night before. Which he did. I liked him so much that i just didn't want to hear it so i made myself not hear him. (I can do that..its weird) So when i actually thought we were dating and wasted my time crying we were actaully really broken up but i didn't want to come to terms with that. All you girls know how that is though. But hun..If he has moved on then i suggest you move on-its hard for everyone so don't give me that excuse cause i gave everyone that excuse til i found my love john...I've never been happier in my life. [ SaraLee's advice column | Ask SaraLee A Question ]
chakra answered Tuesday May 24 2005, 6:31 pm: why did he think you had broken up? it sounds like a lame excuse, sorry but it does. did you give him reason to think you had broken up?
Also, he kinda cheated on you, he got another girlfriend while he was with you, he didnt even ask you what was happening with your relationship. and he's with a girl that was nasty to you (even though he's meant to really like you) and a girl he supposedly thinks is annoying, and so soon after you two had "split up".
When you look at it like that, do you really think he's worth it?
You can either ask him whats going on, why he thought you'd split up and why he's with this other girl now.
or just move on, he doesnt seem like a very nice guy does he if he's a cheat.
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.