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Question Posted Monday May 23 2005, 2:17 pm

I just thought I'd tell you thank you for you're advice - it really worked( the one about Mattoon and Chatham and by the way they ARE real, they're just small towns in IL lol) anyways - thank you so much! and I kinda have another problem - lol - okay this guy named Austin, he's been one of my best friends since we were in diapers - and I fell in love with him in 5th grade - i mean i've liked him since kindergarten(dont ask - i never believed in "cooties" so yeah)but I finally fell in love with him in 5th grade. We went out all through 5th grade and all summer and then we broke up. Then we started going out near the middle of 6th grade and that lasted for at least 2 months? and I still really really like him. When he dumped me I cried for like a long time. I found this new kid at the beginning of 7th grade named Anthony and I really thought I had gotten over Austin but i didnt. ( by the way we broke up because I moved to Chatham ) - we live 2 hours away, so i don't know how it'd ever work out - but I'm totally and completely head over heals for this guy, he doesn't know I still love him because he has a girlfriend - who is one of my good friends. but this weekend( memorial weekend ) i hadnt planned on doing anything and he IMed me on MSN saying he wanted me to come down to visit him because he misses me and we need to hang out because he's been having a *crisis* in his life or something - he told me that him and his girlfriend have been getting in a lot of fights and he really just wants to hang out with me and catch up with me this weekend. I don't know if that means he likes me or if he just wants to see me since we haven't seen each other at least 5 months? He never really seemed to care much until he realized him and his girlfriend might break up. I don't know if I should tell him I still love him incase he has feelings for me? I don't know what to do so please help me =(
-Head Over Heels For Him <33

P.S. thank you so much for reading this - sorry if it's long. and thank you for answering my other question!!


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shortiebebe021 answered Friday May 27 2005, 5:00 pm:
anytime :) just go over and see how he acts. don't say anything about your feelings to him until you've actually been around him for a while. if he seems like he cares about you more than a friend, then you should definitely tell him. if it doesn't really seem like it, you should tell him anyway. he might like you and you don't want to miss the opportunity. tell him during the middle, so as to the beginning it may scare him off and the end would be too late to do anything about it (if he does like you back). if it seems like he doesn't like you, then it's up to you whether you tell him or not. if you truly love him more than anything, tell him because you won't be able to hold it in anyway. if you like him only as like a crush, then you could hold it in, whatever. good luck! :)

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