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hey tara!
ok so i have this friend who has this amazing boyfriend, except he doesnt like live in the same area as her. and she's always worried about whether or not he's going to find someone else, but i just keep telling her to stop worrying about it, but then she sees these guys and hangs out with this one guy who she is always like "hes so hot blah blah blah" or something....like i dont get what is going through her head, but she has a boyfriend, and she thinks that since he doesnt see her hanging out or talking with these other guys, then it doesnt matter. but then she's worried about him and whether or not he's hanging out with other girls. should i tell her boyfriend? what do i do?
thanks,
confused :-/
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dear confused,
don't tell her boyfriend. that will end up in both your friend and your friend's boyfriend disliking you. and you don't want that. instead have a serious talk with your friend. be like, "listen, i know it's none of my business abotu the decisions your making, but i need to tell you that what you're doing isn't right. it's not fair to your boyfriend, who has no clue. and then you wander if he is doing the same to you. if you're not ready to handle a long-distance relationship and be completely faithful, then you shouldn't be going out with him." see if that hits the nail on the head. if not, make sure to warn her of all of the things that can happen if and when her boyfriend finds out shes not being loyal. if that still doesnt work, there's nothing you can do. she's making a mistake, and she's gonna learn from it eventually. and if she wants to do it on her own, your work is done.
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