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Boy troubles and much need help from an expertish person.
okay i have this problem and i would just like to know how to deal with it. I was going with this guy a little over than a year ago and we weren't going out we were just hooked up and acted like boyfriend and girlfriend, and as time went on it just died. Recently I started likeing him again. and he was kind of leading me on and now he's going out with a new girlfriend! I was shocked when i heard about it. No offense to her but she is a little immature and doesnt really seem like the type of person this guy would be into. But what do i know? Okay so last night i was at a party. It was a surprise for me and my friend didnt invite him but earlier he was telling about how bored he was so when my friend brought me out to dinner as a decoy so people could get tto the party spot we invited the guy. And he came, still going out with his girlfriend. He figures its okay to hang out with me since his girlfriend hangs out with other guys. mind you evryone know that i like this guy includeing his girlfriend. so last night we were going for a walk with another couple and i guess he is kind of into me. So he was telling me how we could hug and stuff because his girls friend was around. and then he was saying maybe next weekend and stuff to me. and he was hitting on me all night. and i think their destine for breakup so could you please just tell me if he's worth waiting for. I really really like him and think he's great. and i would just like to know what you think of this whole situation.
-Elizabeth, 14
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yeah it sounds like he might be worth waiting for, with him giving you all these signals and everything. just wait a while, maybe a week or so, but if he doensn't start doing anything with you, you should stop waiting for him. just move on and look for other guys, because if you wait to long you'll get devastated and it'll just make your life a lot worse. i think he might like you the way you put it so keep on flirting and hanging out with him and see how it goes!! i hope you end up going out with him again! good luck! :)
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