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QUOTE"I'm offended that you've told girls to forget about guys who are too shy to ask them out. Geeks have a lot to offer, and we might be shy, but we're not emotionless and are certainly better for girls than those popular jocks who just want to get laid."UNQUOTE
QUOTE"Well yeah, from a moral standpoint I'm sure you're much better. But you're still a lousy boyfriend if you're afraid of girls. I'm not saying geeks are a downfall in society or anything, okay? You're still a good person, I'm sure. Just not worth chasing after from a boyfriend standpoint. Women should not have to work hard to keep any man, you're not worth it to us. So I'm telling all my questioners to drop the battle, whether they're fighting another woman, an alcohol problem, or the fact that you're a big damn pussy. Get some guts, then think about what you can offer women. There are guys who know a lot about computers and aren't afraid to talk to girls, get to be friends with some females, it won't kill you. Quit staring at us from afar. You're not genetically encoded to be a loser your whole life... everyone can be cool if they're mature and determined."UNQUOTE
You are a feminist, you want equal rights...and yet you still preach that men should work hard for women, yet women shouldn't have to work for men. Is this equal rights? Sounds like a blatant double standard to me.
After battling shyness and low self esteem for years, I now approach girls...but its great when girls come up to me, too. I don't see anything wrong with it.
End your hypocrisy. Men should approach women, but women should approach men too.
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How is going up and talking to a girl "working hard"? There are plenty of times when I'll tell a woman to be honest and up front towards a man she wants, even if it means getting past some shyness, and that's what I'm telling the guy here, too.
Sorry I don't replace every pronoun in every question with "he/she", but I was addressing this one GUY'S problem with WOMEN. When women write in asking what to do differently, I tell them to change.
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