Hey, ii am 12 and my boyfriend just dumped me and he juss got me pregnant! my parents died so ii live w. my aunt, and shes poor, so there's no money for the baby, and i hate abortions, they are sick and mean! so dont tell me to get an abortion, they juss arent fair! and even worse - my boyfriend had sex w. my best friend and now she's pregnant and she's 13. so yeh it sucks. =/ i'm failing school, and i'm too young to get a job. and i've done basically everything wrong . and it's too late to change. pls help me, and my twin sister is perfect, and my aunt is so proud of her and practically hatez me. nd she sent me to an alternative school [[gateway]] and ii haven't learned so ii dunno whut tha hell is wrong w. me, but i'm such a bad kid. ugh, pls write some goooood advice, or aleast worth reading. love yah
-- pregnant PREteen
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? shortiebebe021 answered Friday May 20 2005, 2:06 pm: i'm really sorry about all that :( that's why you shouldn't have sex when you're not even a TEENAGER. well you could have your baby and set it up for adoption. when you're older, you could probably adopt the baby for yourself. ok so your boyfriend basically gets you pregnant and leaves you all alone to take care of the baby all by yourself???? omfg and the same for your friend too? and he just has sex with your best friend right after he dumps you...wtf that bitch doesn't even deserve to get a girlfriend!!! and sorry about how your aunt hates you and how your twin sister is like perfect, that must really suck. my older sis is perfect too, but it's worse when it's actually your twin. anyways maybe you could get a tutor. i mean, i know it's expensive but it's worth you actually LEARNING something. try your best, have study groups with friends. those actually really help, i'm doing it everyday for finals. and i know it might sound dorky but make a time schedule for your time so you don't end up wasting time and get some breaks while studying and doing homework, so you don't die of exhaustion. have a 15 or 10 minute break every 45 minutes or hour of homework and such. ok i hope this helped and if not, i'm really sorry :( at least the adoption thing helped?? good luck! :) [ shortiebebe021's advice column | Ask shortiebebe021 A Question ]
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