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scary movies
ok well i have like 3 questions
1) I wanna go to the movies with my best guy friend and see a scary movie with just the 2 of us so i can get closer to him, but how do i go about asking him but not making it sound like im interested in him?
2) When my mom takes me to the movie, shes gonna be bugging me about who im going with. Should i lie and tell her im going to see a happy movie with a bunch of girls and him so she doesnt hassal me?
3) This ones not related, its for my friend lycia. Well she really likes this boy donnie, but he likes her best friend and her best friend is starting to like him even though she has a boyfriend. She wants to tell him she likes him but she doesnt want it to get back to her best friend and she knows he'll tell her, she asked me to help her but i have no idea how.. any pointers?
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1) Hey thats a situation i think most people have been in before! Just say " Hey wats up? I was wondering if you werent doing any thing if you wanted to go see a movie sometime?
2) Just say "Mom Im going with my girls and my guy friend and were gona go see a nice scary movie " she'll understand
3) If your friend Lycia has that "best friend " and has a boy friend then She shouldnt leave her boy friend for this guy because obviously this guy she doesnt like as much because if she did she would've left her boy friend already for him! If she likes him tell her to go for it and dont be afraid if he tells her or not cuz if she was a true friend she would understand and wouldnt get mad at all!
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Okay, this may seem like a cRappie answeR, but Really all you need to do is just flat out ask him. Just say something along the lines of, "What aRe you doing this weekend? Do you wanna go to a movie?" I know you make think that will still SEEM obvious to him, but tRust me.. it's all in the pResentation. So if you'Re woRRied, tRy pRacticing at home. But what would be so bad about showing inteRest in him?? Maybe he'd be moRe inclined to go if he knew you felt foR him!
Also, call me cRazy, but I think it'd be best to be honest with youR MotheR. It's just a boy you happen to be going to the movies with -- no biggie, so let heR know that.
And as foR Lycia, it's tRue that she can not let heR best fRiend contRol heR life and what she does and who she's seeing... BUT.. it seems to be like theRe's a lot of dRama and immatuRity going on theRe. If it weRe me, I'd tell Lycia to not botheR with it.. moRe tRouble than it's woRth.
Hope this helps!!
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for # 1:
you should say something like "hey, me and whoever want you to go to the movies with us just for whatever. cuz theres no one else to go with us. so? wanna?" or ask someone to ask him for you.
for # 2:
you should probably say your going to meet your *girl* friends there and your going to see a PG movie or something and then meet your *guy* there and so technically, your not lying.
for # 3:
lycia should try to write a secret note to this guy and tell him she likes him and then if the guy tells her best friend, she should tell her she really likes this guy and if she gets mad at her, shes not a true friend or she should apoligize and say she'll never talk to him again. but thats stupid. hope i helped. send me any other questions you may have!
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Ok for your first question just say hey I want to go to a movie but I don't want to go with a bunch of people because it gets annoying. And you were wondering if he wanted to go with you. You could also say that there are a bunch of people going and then like the day before the movie tell him that a bunch of people aren't going and it's just going to be you two.
Well if you tell her that you are going with a friend that's a guy will she flip out and not let you go? If the answers yes then you should just say I'm going to a movie with my friends try not to get too specific so that it's not really like you're lying.
As for your friend I really don't know what to do in that situation...maybe she could just talk to him and ask him not to tell her.
Good luck and I'm sorry that I couldn't be more help
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