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So my name is Danielle, and I'm terribly in like with this guy. I just realized yesterday night that I might not ever get over him... The one thing I hate the most is him, but hes the one thing that can put a smile on my face within seconds of his presence. I've tried mutiple times to show how that I care for him alot..and that I like him. He only wants to be friends though..or thats how he shows it...actions speak louder than words correct? I don't know whether I should just be there for him or just move on and erase him from my life and consider him just another stranger ...
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I've been in your position before. If he is a close friend of yours then don't completely erase him from your life. Actions do speak louder than words, so don't let your actions hurt anothers feelings. You are just assuming he wants to be just friends, make a move or talk to him about it. Tell him exactly how you feel. If he lets you down and you won't be dating anytime soon then don't give up. NEVER GIVE UP ON LOVE.
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all i can say is that .. you need to be by his side.. then maybe he will take a liking for you and show that he cares about you .. as long as he likes you as a sister or somthing.. it is better than him hating you ..
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well danielle most of the time.. when guys want to be friends.. they just want to be friends.. he is probably looking for someone diffrent.. as they say " you could be the most lucious grape in the patch.. but he may be looking for a banana" u cud be really pretty. just not what he's looking for.. you should move on.. and find someone that will like u for u.. and then u'll kno wether to make a move or not
hope my advice works..
mucho amor <> BoRiQuAbAbii05
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NO you can't just move on if he makes you feel this way. Yes actions speak louder than words but remember guys are very good at hiding their emotions and don't like to show them as they may make them look less macho or the girl may turn them down etc, etc. Guys aren't as good as us at picking up signals. The only way to know for sure is to tell him. I know it's risky and you may get hurt more, but if you never ask him you'll always regret it. What if you meet up 10 years later and suddenly he says "hey i used to fancy you". You have to go for it, for you. Think of how you'll feel if he says he feels the same way. Go on, just pluck up the courage and tell him.
Even if he does turn you down, at least you'll know for sure and you can start moving on, as it's always easier to move on once you know for definite that you've not got a chance. Believe me, I know :-)
Good luck. I really REALLY hope this turns out well for you
Claire xx
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