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hey.. well lets see my problem is that i have this so called friend.. shes cool and all but she doesnt really like me. cause certain reasons having to do with my boyfriend. but anyways.. i was wondering how do i show this girl that i really want to be friends with her cause i like her and i want us to have a friendship. i want to be friends but idk if she is willing to try and see that i am a nice girl .. sometimes we act as friends and we hang out and i buy her lunch and we laugh about stuff and everything but other days she just ignores me .. idk what to do. please help..
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Well...does she know that you want to be friends with her? Maybe she doesn't know that your friendly gestures are meant to mean "lets be friends" instead of "..i'm just bein nice." If you reallllllly wanna be friends with her, start a conversation with her, either in person or over the internet, about how you would really like to be friends with her and that you just want to put the past fights/arguments behind you. You say that sometimes she just ignores you, maybe it's because she feels ignored by you, but yet, doesn't want to get into your business by asking questions or whatever. Do you ever try to talk to her instead of waiting for her to come along? Maybe this is the kind of situation where YOU need to be the first one to make the first move towards a friendship, or she'll never even second think it. All i can really tell you is to try all of that stuff, but most importantly be yourself, don't try to be something you aren't just to become her friend, because no one worth that. Love Arielle
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