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hey its stacy please help
hey well ur advice really helps me thanks.. well i dont think they have any history i just think she just wants to keep there friendship. but its not really my fault that he isnt really being friends with her. i dont know what i have to do with this and why she has to hate me cause of it..i tell him to be friends with her and to hang out with other friends so he wont lose touch with them but he wont listen. he apperantly is to inlove with me.. i love him and all but i want him to keep his friends and everything. i dont like losing friends or gaining enemies. well today i followed ur advice and was nice to her and everything hopefully shes getting the message that i want to be friends..
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Maybe if you didn't hang out with him as much, and give him no opprotunity to hang out with other friends, it would give him a chance to hang out with his friends and strengthen those relationships. Yeah, that might be hard for you if you two are inseperable, but there IS such thing as seperation. LOL. No offense to your guy but he doesn't seem like a very nice person, most guy's would "love" their girlfriend but still hang out with his friends, i'm sure that this girl isn't the only one feeling unwanted by him. Maybe try to NOT make plans with him one weekend and tell him to do something with someone else for a change. If he loves you, then you won't have to worry about him messing around with anyone else and there is trust there, unlike in some relationships. The con to junior high relationships is that they don't last and you get an overwhelming amount of enemies because of them. There's ALWAYS someone getting hurt even if you don't notice it. I personally don't get into relationships until i'm absolutely sure that I won't be effecting anyone else's emotions, because i don't want to feel guilty about it. But enough about me, this is about you, this girl, and your guy. If he doesn't want to hang out with other friends, there's more to that, it may be because his friends have drifted away from him because of yours and his relationship. I'm not trying to make you feel guilty, but it is most likely true. Sorry that this is so long, it may not have made sense to you, but it made sense in my head. lol. hope i helped, let me know how it goes and ask about anything else you need help with <3 arielle
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