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Hey, I had written in here before.. i was the one you called a boy magnet. lol. and im so confused. Out of the whole situation before I picked Alex, and now we're going out. but tommrow my best friend, Andrew, is coming over and idk if Alex would be mad if he found out. Me and Andrew had gone out before too, but it was kinda messy, cause me and my xxxxx-bf Joe had just broken up and I went out with Andrew and i still liked Joe, and idk it just was messy. But me and Andrew still managed to be best friends. but like, ugh im so mad too cause im known as a slut, even though i havent done anything to bad. but its like all the girls are jellous cause a lot of guys like me? and im not being self-absorbed, but like thats what my friends say that the girls are just jellous. And i hate it, ill like walk by and there like "theres Tammy the whore" and it really makes me upset.. =/. im totally boy crazy, and i've had SOOO many bfs i cant even count. so i can see why;d they would get the idea im a slut. but im not and i just wish they could get to know me before saying that. and now with Andrea coming over everyones gonna like make up stuff saying I cheated on Alex, which i would NEVER do! One, because I love Alex so much, and Two, Andrew is like my brother? and that;d be soo wierd. Ugh idk. im just so confused. Please help.
-Tammy
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ok tell alex ahead of time about andrew coming over, but explain to him that andrew is your best friend and like your brother, so you'd never hook up with him. and plus you love alex anyway so you'd never cheat on him. you're totally allowed to have your best friend come over, even if it's a guy (or ex).
and how did those other girls find out about andrew coming over? and i'm sorry to say but i do sort of understand why those girls would call you sluts (even though i'd never do that and that's a horrible thing to say). you've dated countless bfs...wow and how old are you again lol? you're only a slut if you become practically a prostitute and hook up with any random guy and do stuff with them. i'm sure you're not one but girls tend to spread fake rumors all the time and it's stupid, but that's what everyone does. maybe to prove that you're not, lay off dating for a while. dating too many guys tires you out anyway. i'm not saying for you to dump alex but whenever you do break up, take a break from guys. plus, if you date too many, once you're single you won't be able to take it very well since you're so used to being with a guy. do you have lots of short relationships? next time you go out with a guy, make sure he's someone you'd actually go out with a long time, not just for like 2 days. good luck!! :)
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