okay i need help here. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a lil while and he tells me he loves me. Is that possible? Everyone tells me that he doesnt really like me and he is just going out with me to have a girlfriend. All I ever hear is reasons why we shouldnt be together. Sometimes I consider their reasons but then when I'm with/talk to him every doubt in my mind goes away. What do I do? Do I just trust him and get hurt or what? HELPP!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? All_4_Him_4eva answered Friday May 13 2005, 7:24 am: Well first off, and I hate to say this b/c I've said it before but, we yungguns don't even begin to know the meaning of true love.... we do feel "love" all the time but it's not the real, true love. It's better put as "I REALLY like you." It sounds stupid but chyeah. And don't listen to the other people about him. There's always a part to everyone that isn't seen unless it's by their partner. I'd say to go ahead and stay with him but... I dunno exactly how to put this.... watch your step. And especially watch your step because relationships that have the "Now I like him, now I don't" feeling tend to bounce around and usually have a few issues in them, but some do still work. That's one way that I know, at this point in time, it can't be TRUE love, but instead just like... strong liking (I sound like an idiot rite now, don't I? lol). So, trust him but try to hold up on the last part in your statement. Good Luck and hope I helped.
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