well here is the thing i like my best friends brother .. he is 11 and i am 13 . she doesnt think i should go out with him . but i really like him .. and i dont know what to do . PLEASe help me !! xo thanks so much
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confused soul
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? shortiebebe021 answered Thursday May 19 2005, 3:13 pm: your friend probably doesn't want you to go out with him because he's 2 years younger than you *at this age, it does make a difference. later on, it doesn't really matter*. and he's her brother, and if you date him, she might feel left out of the "threesome". or she might just think it's weird, who knows.
anyways if you really like him, you shouldn't let others opinions influence your decision! go for it!! like for instance, women weren't allowed to vote about 80 years ago. many people thought it was wrong for women to gain voting rights but women stood up and fought their way for voting rights anyway!! and the men's (and some women's) opinions scared them but they did it anyway!! and guess what, they SUCCEEDED! ok that was a horrible example but you should still just go for it and if your friendship is ruined because of this, than she isn't a very good friend. this is really long so sorry but if you need more help then just IM me at sappyacorn2!! good luck!! :) [ shortiebebe021's advice column | Ask shortiebebe021 A Question ]
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