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I Want Him-
I've known this guy [my best guy friend] for almost 2 yrs now and I've always had this certain feeling for him as more than just a friend. I didn't think that I liked him or anything, just thought that I felt for him as a brother. But now he thinks he's in "love" with this girl who isn't right for him at all and I get jealous when I find out he's with her and I want to say something to him about it but I don't want to ruin our friendship because he means a lot to me. I want to be with him, but if it didn't work out I wouldn't want there to be akwardness between us. What should I do?
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you say that you feel brotherly love for him...maybe you are just very protective over him and you don't want him to get hurt. but it seems like that you would date him yet if things went wrong you don't want the awkwardness there. Completely understandable. I have a friend like that who i really care for, he is my best guy friend and i love him very much. and I would hate to see if he dated someone. yet...in all reality, the thing is..you should keep a postitive attitude and just let him date who he wants and let him try new things out. If you truely believe the girl is all wrong then you should talk to him and tell him that in the nicest way possible so it dosen't seem like you really don't care. The best thing you can really do is just be there for him and tell him how you really feel. Take things slow and see how they work out. If things don't work out and see you that you guys are better off friends, there should be no awkwardness because things were taken slow!! Just let him know that you are there for him and you care for him as a friend. =)
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