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I've known this guy for a quite a while, and I think he's a really great friend. But ever since I met him, once now and then I always find me asking myself, do I like him as a friend or as a crush? It's really weird cause I can't seem to figure that out. I guess that he likes me cause sometimes like if we are in a group of people and everyones talking, he'd look at me. And when it's just me talking to him, sometimes we have this awkward moments where none of us talks. But if he went and dated other girls, I'd feel kinda left alone but I'll still be his friend and be there for him cause he's definately one of my best guy friends. I can't figure myself out cause whenever I think that he likes some other girl, I'll feel bad about myself. And right now, I'm not sure but I think he likes this other girl, but I don't like her cause I think she's annoying and he is just not right for her. What should I do? *hurley* (link)
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so you dunno if its a crush or not eh? well i do believe that you have just gotten so close to this boy that you may start having a semi--crush. you gotta ask yourself if you really like him or not...and once you answer that i think that you should tell him && see where it goes. and if you don't really know if he likes another girl..why don't you find out! afterall you did say he was one of your best guy friends..and usually when you have best guy friends you can tell or ask them anything. once you know that you'll know what to do. just follow your heart && tel him && see where it goes. you never know what could happen.. =D
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I've known this guy [my best guy friend] for almost 2 yrs now and I've always had this certain feeling for him as more than just a friend. I didn't think that I liked him or anything, just thought that I felt for him as a brother. But now he thinks he's in "love" with this girl who isn't right for him at all and I get jealous when I find out he's with her and I want to say something to him about it but I don't want to ruin our friendship because he means a lot to me. I want to be with him, but if it didn't work out I wouldn't want there to be akwardness between us. What should I do? (link)
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you say that you feel brotherly love for him...maybe you are just very protective over him and you don't want him to get hurt. but it seems like that you would date him yet if things went wrong you don't want the awkwardness there. Completely understandable. I have a friend like that who i really care for, he is my best guy friend and i love him very much. and I would hate to see if he dated someone. yet...in all reality, the thing is..you should keep a postitive attitude and just let him date who he wants and let him try new things out. If you truely believe the girl is all wrong then you should talk to him and tell him that in the nicest way possible so it dosen't seem like you really don't care. The best thing you can really do is just be there for him and tell him how you really feel. Take things slow and see how they work out. If things don't work out and see you that you guys are better off friends, there should be no awkwardness because things were taken slow!! Just let him know that you are there for him and you care for him as a friend. =)
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what do you do when you think someone is your friend but then they blow you off or it seems like they blow you off? and they just don't really care and they leave you out? (link)
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well trust me...ive had my share of friends like that...but the thing is, if they blow you off...maybe they just need space. some time away for awhile. or if you truely believe it's something serious, just go confront them. ask them if there really is a problem in the nicest way possible. see what their reaction is and take it from there. True friends always come back for you. =)
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