Hey..im a girl thats 14 years old....Okay i think i like one of my good friends. I wanna go out with him but i dont know if it will ruin our friendship and i dont want to ruin our friendship. He sometimes acts like he likes me but I dont know if he does. We thought about going out one time but we decided not to. And even though we are just friends and never gone out...we've made out and touched each other and stuff like that before. i dont know what i should do..and all of my friends and people that know both of us think that we are going out because we act like it...i guess. i need HELP!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BehindBluEyes892 answered Saturday May 7 2005, 10:00 pm: hey! if you really think its going to ruin the friendship, then just stay really good friends..b/c if you are unsure of ruining anything, then thats something telling you that maybe you should just stay friends. i've had this happen to me, where i liked someone but i wasnt sure if i wanted to go out w/ him b/c of ruining the friendship. and i finally realized that if i was that worried, then maybe i just should stay friends b/c when you really like someone, you don't even think about the friendship being ruined b/c you know it WON'T be. this is b/c if this guy you like is a really good friend, even after you guys break up..you both will still be friends, being that you both are so close. and so that's important knowing that a good friend can and will do that...so pretty much its up to you, if you really have doubts about the friendship, then keep it as friends..but if you want to try more than a friend, go for it! i'm sure everything will work out =) i hope i helped! good luck!!!! =)
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