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shutting people out.
i have a combination of two problems, but they tie in with relationships i have with people in my life. lately, i feel as if my life has been on rewind. everyday i wake up, it seems i am about to experience the same days i did the day before. all of this leaves me with an empty emotion, almost as if i am missing out on something that everyone else has. i guess you can call this the passion people have for life. i do take my days alive for granted. i really do. unfortunately, i am not certain how to make them worth while.
here's part two. all these feelings i have make me feel jumbled. it is difficult to express this all to a friend, for they do not understand. when i start explaining about my view on life, it is like i am talking to myself. nobody is there on the other end.
i give up, because i have attempted again and again to mend this. maybe i am repeating a mistake more than once. i just want to know if there is a way that i can open myself up and have motivation to take life by the horns. i despise how i back away and allow myself to be silent.
i just don't want to be invisible anymore to everyone...
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Okay, I'm gonna spilt my answers into parts. Here it goes:
Part 1: You gotta live life to the fullest. Try something new, like a hobby, sport, food... etc. From what you've told me, it seems like every day for you has a routine (Wake up, go to school, homework, sleep). It's good to have a routine and all, but you still need to do out-of-the-ordinary things.
Do the things that you love to do.
Also, life is short. You gotta remember that. That's why you have to live life to the fullest.
Part 2: You seem like a shy person. Believe me, I know how it feels since I'm shy, too. To not be "invisible" anymore, you can just socialize with more people. I know it might be hard if you're shy, but it will be easier with time. And your motivation to take life by the horns? Just think to yourself "Life's too short to NOT take life by the horns."
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, please leave one in my inbox.
*Manders*
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