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dear heretohelpx3,
i've been going out with this guy for like 2 weeks and he's hooked up w. girls before, but i haven't really had a boyfriend and i'm terrified to do it, but i really want to. He's trying not to pressure me, but i feel horrible for not hanging out with him enough and not doing that. I don't really know who he's friends with because we never really hung out after school a lot. I'm not allowed to have guys over my house. I don't have many friends who i hang out after school either. By the way, i'm in seventh grade.
Do you have any advice?
xo bad girlfriend
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DEAR BAD GIRLFRIEND,
aw. first i think its really sweet that your boyfriend accepts that your not ready and isnt really forcing you to hook up with him even if he IS sending you hints. but anyway, i never h/u either bc i havent had a boyfriend in a few years but i could care less - i enjoy being single :). but anyways, i know im soon gna have one and i know the time will come where hes gna wna kiss me and im scared too so i asked a lot of my friends. its natural to feel scared. i would wna do it too when i have a b/f but im freaking out too lol. a lot of my friends say the guys usually know what to do and you just gotta go with the flow supposedly and after a while you get the hang of it and it gets easier. but my advice to you is even if you wna do it, dont feel pressured at all to do it - if you wna wait 15 years than do it!! but dont let him pressure you for something that you arent ready for. if he loves you then he'll understand but guys that age are very into that kinda stuff, so maybe just procrastinate (hold off) on doing it by distracting him, like maybe kissing or hugging or talking or like flirting or just lay on top of him lol. anything you feel you wna do. and you have to let him know so he doesnt feel like that you dont like him. also i would say the best time to do it is at a party or a hang-out.
did i help?,
HEREtoHELPx3
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