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People are always asking me about my love life, like people at school. I have had a boyfriend before but that only lasted a week, and I always feel uncomfortable saying 'oh I've only had one boyfriend' when people ask. I know it's not a race or a competition as to who can get the most boyfriends, but it's starting to bug me and I don't want to lie and say I've had loads of boyfriends. The thing is, I'm just not emotionally ready to be in a relationship, and I want any relationship I have to be a long one, so I'm obviously gonna have less boyfriends than everyone else. I don't mind that, I just mind being embarrased when I say 'one'. How can I avoid these conversations, or what should I say when they come up?
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Hey! I know what you mean! But if you don't want to answer, then don't answer. Tell them you're uncomfortable talking about it. Or you can just tell them you like being single and having fun, as oppose to being in a lot of relationships. I think you should be proud that you haven't had loads of boyfriends. I used to be upset, but ive grown to loveeee it. :) Don't be ashamed of only having one boyfriend. If they give you crap about only having one boyfriend, then that's just stupid and immature. Like you said, it's not a race or a competition. Be happy with yourself! :)
♥ Hannah ]
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