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Hey I was just wondering where you got your shirt in the picture? It's too cute!
Hey, thanks! I got it from Aeropostale. :)
♥ Hannah
hey umm i have my period rite now.. i REALLY wana use a tampon but i nvr have b4 and im so scared to use one.. ughh idk man!
Hey, have no fear! Tampons are soooooo much better, like you have no idea! Just use one! If you're confused on how to use them, just keep trying. You'll get the hang of it!
♥ Hannah
I really need a job, and i was thinking about getting one at the place i tan. but i'm scared to ask what age they hire. Does anyone know how old you usually have to be to work at a tanning salon. Thanks
Hey i actually went in for an application! Don't feel scared to ask them! Look up their phone number and call them if that helps. The place i was going to apply at hires 16 y/o+. But my old tanning place hired 18+. It just depends on the place. Call around, you'll find someone who hires your age (assuming you're atleast 16.)
♥ Hannah
whats the easiest way to loose 10 pounds?
Well if you drink soda a lot, then cutting back and gradually quitting will help you lose about 5 lbs in a week or two. Cut back on carbs, but dont take them out of your diet because your body needs them in order to live. Replace junk food with fruits, veggies, and salads. Dont eat late or skip meals. Eat 5 small meals instead of 3 to boost your metabolism. Exercise 3-5 days and drink tons of water. :)
♥ Hannah
hey why didnt you go to texas for your prom?
Hey, I was going to go back for Spring Break which is the following week. So it wouldnt work. (I couldnt fly there for prom and stay there that long. I'd miss too much school. And i couldnt fly there for prom, then fly back home. Then fly there again the following week. It'd be pointless and cost too much money.) And i think i can wait a few months before returning. Blah, it's soo confusing to explain. But whatever. It's no big deal.
♥ Hannah
I cant get a foundation to match my skin, because I am so pale. Does anyone know any good brands?
Maybelline Wonderfinish has some. And so does Mary Kay (which is what i wear.) They have a variety of IVORY colors for light skinned people. :)
♥ Hannah
hey Hannah! well i was wonderin, im not really good with fashion and all but do you think this would look good? i bought these dark green pants with purple and red stripes on them and this see through top with green, orange, yellow, pink and purple polka dots on it and i thought i would wear a side pony tail to go with it, (the hair scrunchi has yellow smiley faces on it lol) i also bought some new converses, one show is green and the other one is blue!! lol i thought thad be kinda different. anyway would i look cute in this??? thanks 4 your help!
~amber
Ummm.. i'd have to see a picture of this crazy outfit. I'm all about being unique and random when it comes to clothes. But from your description, it sounds a little tacky and overboard. Some things dont sound even close to matching. (Which i guess some people can pull off, but for most people it just wouldnt work.) But if you love the outfit, then go for it and wear it. You shouldn't care what people think. But since you asked for my opinion, those were my 2 cents. ^
♥ Hannah
where to start im a gurl n im 15yrs old..ok by the end of the last summer i got a bf but he lived in a diff. state then me but i really lyked him.school started and WOW whole bunch of cute guys...ahh then it happened... i saw the guy i lyked in the 8th grade(lets call him "bob") n the bad part was bob ended up being in 1 of my classes so i started fallin for him again/c i really lyked him in the 8th grade..but i didnt say nething..then i met another guy who was a grade above me (lets call him "steve") n steve ended up wanting to get hooked up so my friend entroduced him to me n damn he was HOTT!so we started seeing eachother ..i kno thats wrong /c i had a bf ...but w/e i fell in love wit steve me n my bf broke up /c he found out ... all in the month of november but the steve ended up ..well we ended up not talkin much nemore/c of stuff that happened so i was left wit nothing. then me n bob the guy i really lyked in 8th grade started talkin..alot! he asked me out jan 27, n we r still goin out but the thing is that i still have alot of fellings for steve..alot!we went threw so much..bob is so awsome but he doesnt treat me the way i would want to get treated.. see the thing is he has never said i love you in person only in notes and aim he doesnt sweet talk to me..only on the notes he use to hold my hand in the hallways the first 1 or 2 weeks we started goin out but not nemore..except for today but he was kinda forced by his friends as it seems to me it seemed lyk he didnt want to hold my hand so i let go of it..he doesnt tell me im beautiful and we stay on the fone for hours wit nothing to say...and somtimes wen i kiss him i see steve(b/c of memories)..steve has been flirting wit me alot too...ppl say a lil too much n he kinda makes fun of bob.i dont kno wat to do i love bob and all but i want him to change but im scared to tell him i want him to do/say everything in person not in notes...then theres the other guy steve but as long as my bf "bob" changes i bet i could get over steve ...but i dont kno wat to do..
I think you should focus on this Bob guy for now. You definately need to talk to him and get everything out in the open. Tell him that you're upset he doesn't seem to be that affectionate. But you cant really get mad at the guy. Guys have hard time expressing their feelings, unlike us girls. So if he's not all touchy/feely, you cant blame him. Maybe he's too scared to make some moves. Just talk to him and see how that goes. The thing is, you should love him for the person he is.. you shouldnt get mad at him because he doesn't physically please you. If things dont work out with this Bob guy, then definately go for Steve. You shouldnt lead Bob on when all your thoughts are about Steve. It wouldnt be fair to him. But i say go for the guy you like most. I dont think its possible to love both guys at once. It may be a different kind of love or you just may LIKE one strongly, but definately go for the guy you TRUELY love or whoever makes you the happiest. :) Good luck choosing! Tell me how that goes.
♥ Hannah
Okay, He's 17, I'm 14, I really really REALLY like him and have known him for about 5-7 years. Family freinds, tight. whatever. ANd he knows I like him and he's said a bunch of times that he like's me as much, we were valentine's, have plans on "hooking up", and then I asked him what our relationship was, and he says "friends with benefits" and I was hurt by it, just because freinds with benfits sounds like he doesn't care about me as much as I do him, even though he's said it. I know age is a thing to get over, but it's not that bad. When he's 18 it'll be differnt. And he and I live in different towns, like 30 minutes away, and see eachother on vacations and what not. Distane and age is not an issue for me at all. But it is for him. And I don't know what to do, because I really like him, and can't figure out what he wants from me. Any adivce?
From experience, i dont think friends with benefits is such a great idea. It's another way of saying that he wants to mess around with you, but doesnt want any attatched emotions. I think that in order to have a physical relationship with someone, you should have feelings for them. So basically he is using you for your body if he only wants to be friends with benefits. To have a relationship, two people need to be involved and need to make sacrafices. It seems like you're doing your part, but he isnt. So instead of handing your heart to this boy, who is just going to throw it on the floor and stomp all over it, you should avoid trying to go out of your way to make a relationship work. I can already tell he's going to end up hurting you. If he TRUELY liked you as much as he says he does, he would try to make things work. And he would want to pursue a relationship with you, not just try to "hook up." But as lame as this sounds, follow your heart. Do what you feel is best. But my advice would be to just remain as friends. And find someone who is going to go out of their way to see you and will make you the happiest girl in the world. :)
♥ Hannah
Okay.My boyfriend told one of my best friends that he doesnt like me anymore so she can tell me. When I got online she told me and I was really mad. I was mad because all of my friends were telling me to break up with him because he didnt treat me right. He didnt know how to be a boyfriend and plus he was prude. He always told me that he loved me and he would never break up with me but look now he told her he didnt like me
anymore. Im so mad at my self that I didnt listen to my friends before. I didnt want to belive them. Now I`m hurt and I dont know what to do. I dont wanna talk to him and let him know I`m sad or anything. So .. do you think he ever liked me or that he just said he did? Im so confused and hurt. Please help hannah!
Aww, well you need to talk to him. I think it's pretty lame how he told your friend to tell you. He should have went straight to you and told you himself. Afterall, you and him are going out -- your friend has no place in your guys' relationship. Anyways, the only way you'll find answers is by communicating with him. No relationship is going to get anywhere if you cant talk or tell eachother how you feel. I'm sure at one point he liked you, but maybe he changed his mind. I can't really say..since i know neither of you. But like i said, talk to him and ask him these questions. And dont be mad at yourself for not listening to your friends. They aren't ALWAYS gonna be right about everything. Love is about taking risks. You learn and then you grow. Good luck! Tell me how it goes, girl! :)
♥ Hannah
People are always asking me about my love life, like people at school. I have had a boyfriend before but that only lasted a week, and I always feel uncomfortable saying 'oh I've only had one boyfriend' when people ask. I know it's not a race or a competition as to who can get the most boyfriends, but it's starting to bug me and I don't want to lie and say I've had loads of boyfriends. The thing is, I'm just not emotionally ready to be in a relationship, and I want any relationship I have to be a long one, so I'm obviously gonna have less boyfriends than everyone else. I don't mind that, I just mind being embarrased when I say 'one'. How can I avoid these conversations, or what should I say when they come up?
Hey! I know what you mean! But if you don't want to answer, then don't answer. Tell them you're uncomfortable talking about it. Or you can just tell them you like being single and having fun, as oppose to being in a lot of relationships. I think you should be proud that you haven't had loads of boyfriends. I used to be upset, but ive grown to loveeee it. :) Don't be ashamed of only having one boyfriend. If they give you crap about only having one boyfriend, then that's just stupid and immature. Like you said, it's not a race or a competition. Be happy with yourself! :)
♥ Hannah
My hair is naturally very dark brown like ashlee simpsons hair. its highlighted blonde right now but its growing out. when i get it redone i kinda want it BROWN not black but like really brown like how reese whitherspoon had her hair for a lil bit and like whiteish blondish highlights. that may sound weird but if anyone know what i mean and what color that is really called can you tell me and if you think it would look good? thnx so much?
I think you're talking about an ash or a cool blonde. I think it would look super cute as long as the highlights were thin. Bring a picture of how you want it to your hair dresser, so they will know how you want it. :)
♥ Hannah
Where are some good stores to shop for clothes??
Lacey
Well you might have a different taste in clothing, but Forever 21 is awesome. They have such a huge variety of clothes, it's amazing. Plus, their prices are reasonable. But shop where you want to shop. :) Go to the mall and look out for stores that YOU like.
♥ Hannah
Are you supposed to wear a bra under a cami? Im not very big....like kinda flat...Thanks
I would hope so. Wear a strapless one.
♥ Hannah
16/f. I've been really curious about tanning salons. I really want to go to one, but my mom is kind of hesitant to let me do such a thing. Aside from it looking "fake", is it as dangerous as a tan from the sun, or is it less harmless? Also, my arms are tan (I have a "farmers tan") from wearing short sleeves, but I can't wear tank tops, show my stomach or even wear low cut tops (I don't want to wear TOO low cut tops, but right now, everything under my neck line is white...) and I want to get rid of that, so how would I even it out in a tanning bed?
Well it depends on how often you spend out in the sun. If you hardly spend anytime outdoors, then tanning beds wont be that harsh on your skin. (It would probably be the same damage as you would if you went outdoors.) But if you're outside and exposed to a lot of UV rays already, then tanning beds might not be a good idea. The tanning beds will even out your tan. (Thats if you go tanning naked.)
♥ Hannah
I want to start going tanning at this major tanning salon near my house. Im having a problem with the lotions tho. The tanning salon has tons of lotions but theyr all expencive. They reccomend California Tan lotions but does anyone recomend others or like California Tan the best.
thanks.
I *love* Babie! Thats the tanning lotion i use. :) It's on expensive side, but its worth it.
♥ Hannah
17 female
On the side of being a waitress at the country club, I needed to make some extra dough. I decided to apply at a tanning salon near the place. But, I've never been to a tanning salon in my life! I can tan easily enough during my job. But if they interview me, I don't want to look like a complete idiot, so I'm going to go a few times in the mean time. What shall I do when I first walk in? What do I do once I'm inside the room? Do I strip off all my clothes, and so on? Can someone give me a detailed description of what to do at a tanning salon? I don't want to be embarrassed!
When you first walk in, usually you sign in and talk to the person at the counter - which will ask you how long you want to go in for, and then will assign you to a room. Once you're in the room, you lock the door, take off all your clothes, apply the lotion, apply your tanning sticker (if you want), press the button to start the tanning bed. And lay down! Dont forget to put on the goggles though! Most places have a headset to a radio that you can listen to while you tan. Or you can just bring your own. But all you do is lay there till the tanning bed turns off (automatically.) :)
♥ Hannah
Everyone is always saying "I hate tanlines" blah blah blah. Is it wierd that I actually like them? Like if you wear a tube top after wearing a bathing suit that ties around your neck, or if you had cris cross straps on your back. I think its kind of like a sign that you tan. idk, I think its kind of cool...is that wierd? I don't like tanning lines after you wear shorts, or a farmers tan...
Hey! I don't think its weird at all. I always thought they were kind of cute too! :)
♥ Hannah
ok,
there is tons of girls that like me at my school and they all want to go out with me, so i need to know if i should become a "player" and go out with all of them at once or let them take turns?
That is by far the worst idea ever. Why would you want to become a "player?" Girls don't want guys who are with 10 other chicks. Girls want guys for their own and aren't about getting some from everyone. Unless you want to become known as a disgusting, and disrespectful guy.. then stick to one girl. And don't just "take turns." Actually develop a relationship with a girl instead of going through them like crazy.
♥ Hannah
why did you get a new column? what was wrong with your old one?
Nothing really. I wanted to start fresh again. :)
♥ Hannah