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where to start im a gurl n im 15yrs old..ok by the end of the last summer i got a bf but he lived in a diff. state then me but i really lyked him.school started and WOW whole bunch of cute guys...ahh then it happened... i saw the guy i lyked in the 8th grade(lets call him "bob") n the bad part was bob ended up being in 1 of my classes so i started fallin for him again/c i really lyked him in the 8th grade..but i didnt say nething..then i met another guy who was a grade above me (lets call him "steve") n steve ended up wanting to get hooked up so my friend entroduced him to me n damn he was HOTT!so we started seeing eachother ..i kno thats wrong /c i had a bf ...but w/e i fell in love wit steve me n my bf broke up /c he found out ... all in the month of november but the steve ended up ..well we ended up not talkin much nemore/c of stuff that happened so i was left wit nothing. then me n bob the guy i really lyked in 8th grade started talkin..alot! he asked me out jan 27, n we r still goin out but the thing is that i still have alot of fellings for steve..alot!we went threw so much..bob is so awsome but he doesnt treat me the way i would want to get treated.. see the thing is he has never said i love you in person only in notes and aim he doesnt sweet talk to me..only on the notes he use to hold my hand in the hallways the first 1 or 2 weeks we started goin out but not nemore..except for today but he was kinda forced by his friends as it seems to me it seemed lyk he didnt want to hold my hand so i let go of it..he doesnt tell me im beautiful and we stay on the fone for hours wit nothing to say...and somtimes wen i kiss him i see steve(b/c of memories)..steve has been flirting wit me alot too...ppl say a lil too much n he kinda makes fun of bob.i dont kno wat to do i love bob and all but i want him to change but im scared to tell him i want him to do/say everything in person not in notes...then theres the other guy steve but as long as my bf "bob" changes i bet i could get over steve ...but i dont kno wat to do..
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I think you should focus on this Bob guy for now. You definately need to talk to him and get everything out in the open. Tell him that you're upset he doesn't seem to be that affectionate. But you cant really get mad at the guy. Guys have hard time expressing their feelings, unlike us girls. So if he's not all touchy/feely, you cant blame him. Maybe he's too scared to make some moves. Just talk to him and see how that goes. The thing is, you should love him for the person he is.. you shouldnt get mad at him because he doesn't physically please you. If things dont work out with this Bob guy, then definately go for Steve. You shouldnt lead Bob on when all your thoughts are about Steve. It wouldnt be fair to him. But i say go for the guy you like most. I dont think its possible to love both guys at once. It may be a different kind of love or you just may LIKE one strongly, but definately go for the guy you TRUELY love or whoever makes you the happiest. :) Good luck choosing! Tell me how that goes.
♥ Hannah
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