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i need help..
ok heres what i need help on.. theres this boy in school and we started talking when i got switched into his class for 5th hour. he had a g/f at the time. so we started getting to be real good friends nd he ended up dumping her. then we got closer i would go over and chill and we started hooking up. then we started hanging out almost every weekend. and i fell in love with this guy. then one day he goes im going out with somone else after we were talking about going out. so i was crushed and he still was seeing me while dating her so basically he was cheating on her with me. then they broke up when she found out and we started haning out more. then he tells me theyre going back out... i was heart broken because i was gonna tell him i loved him the day he told me he was going back out with her... its been 3 months now that they`ve been going out and me nd him arent even talking (she made him stop talking to me.. and we were best friends cuz i`ve known his family my entire life, no joke but i just met him this year.. long story lol) and i cant get over him no matter how hard i try. hes starting to talk to me a little but not as much as i`d like.. what do i do? do you think hes coming back?? i dont want to wait forever even though i would.
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first of all, i'd like to say that was an extremely bitchy thing for that other girl to do. i can sort of understand why she did that, since he did cheat on her with you after all, but still that's overeacting. i'd also like to point out that he just suddenly didn't talk to you because his girlfriend forced him not to. if he truly cared about you (not like love, but even as a friend) he would have still talked to you! he's being a huge jerk to you for doing that, and even if he's starting to talk to you a bit, that was really mean of him. it's hard to forgive someone who does that. except in your case it's different because you ADORE him.
you could try talking to him a bit more, but not around his bitchy girlfriend. that may lead to something even worse. don't make him feel like you're forcing him to talk to you. make it casual, blah blah. and keep on waiting, that's all you can do. don't plot some evil plan on how to make the two of them break up, that'll just prove you're as big as a loser as his girlfriend.
i don't know if he's coming back or not. the reasons why he might come back is because he has started to talk to you a little bit. the reasons he might not is because he obviously follows his girlfriend's commands so if she orders him around all the time, he's pretty much her slave and obsessed with her (which is why he listens to her). that's probably a wrong prediction though.
don't wait forever. the more you wait, the more likely you're going to get more miserable. yeah you might get more hopeful if things start looking better but still. no guy is worth waiting forever for. if you wait too much, start looking for other guys. especially a guy who's being a jerk to you, he doesn't even deserve to be waited for. i hope i helped...good luck! :)
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