Ok My Boyfriend Of one week and one day completely hurt me today on the bus he didn't sit with me and he usually does and when I aksed him about it he said I don't know why I didn't sit with you and then I asked why he didn't call because the day before he said he would call at 7:30 and didn't and he said I was playing soccer and he told my friend my hands were cold which I don't know if that is true and he told my guyfriend I was shy I mean how I am shy if I talk maybe nervously but I talk and I held his hand and today as I got off the bus I didn't tell him bye like usual because I didn't know what was wrong and I came home pratically in tears PS before we were going out he squeezed my butt tried to touch my boobs ETC I am confused whats wrong and how can I make it right sorry it was long PS my uncle told me to play hard to get even if he is my BF would this work I mean maybe he doesn't like me saying are you mad at me ETC maybe I should back off and let him come to me not talk to him for a few days
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? chaos answered Thursday May 5 2005, 10:21 am: I would encourage you to have something to do as well. Don't pester him about why he didn't call. Maybe accentuate the fact that you missed him sitting by you on the bus. Not why didn't you because its more accusatory and doesn't tell him that you enjoy his company, but are desperate for attention.
And if your hands are cold, rub them together before you hold his hand. Lots of people's hands are cold. Cold hands, warm heart.
You are just insecure. Show him you can live without him and he'll be back. Sounds like he just wanted to touch you to see if you were real. [ chaos's advice column | Ask chaos A Question ]
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