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What To Do?
Ok i kinda no what to do but im not sure if i should. Ok Im going out with this really really sweet boy John and hes great!! We used to go out for 9 months.. We both picked to brake up cause he moved to NY and we stayed together for a while after but we both cheated in the same week and yeah. Now its like 9 months later hes still living in NY and were going back out. Its been a month now that we got back together and its great(even if we dont see each other) He was my frist love you no. Well we wont be able to see each other till we drive and were both 15 and wont drive till next year. I hate it. But now things are changing im none as a slut(im not one though) and im boy crazy i love to flirt and i feel bad. But theres another thing im falling for my other ex i got with after me and John broke up, Mark, wow what a sweetie there and if i got with him id never look at another boy again. Im so scared to ask him out though cause he likes another girl. He told my friend a week ago he likes me and wants to get back together. He also told her that he was going to ask me out. He didnt and i talked to him like three days later after he said this and he told me he likes some other girl at his school on his track team and i no that aint me cause i dont go to his school and im not on his track team. I no if i dump John he'll be heart broken. But if i stay with him hes going to be heart broken from all the stress from being far apart and im just trying to do whats best. And John cheated on me before so how do i no he wont do it again and The thing is i dont know whats best. Thats why im sending this What should i do? dump john or stay with john? Go out with Mark? Tell Mark how i feel? I no mark will never cheat on me like John might cause Mark is the kinda boy every girl wants in her life but the only reasion i dumped him was cause i didnt see him alot not really at all but we didnt really try and we both talked about this again and we said we would try hardest we could i would go to every baceball game he would come over every weekend and we would hang all the time. See ill see Mark and ill never see John well i will in a year if we are still together
What do you think? thanks so much for reading this for me your the best even though i dont know you
Im 15/f/PA/Ashley
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in my opinion, you should go out with mark. i know, you're thinking "BUT WHAT ABOUT JOHN!!!???" you have to choose one of them and cheating is the worst choice you could make at the moment. first off, john lives all the way in NY so you can't really have a good relationship anyway. if you don't have a good one, there's a high possibility he'll cheat on you. i mean, it's not like you'd ever find out anyway. he already cheated on you before too. and your relationship will be full of so many emotions and stress that aren't even worth it. you and john should just be friends, and when you see each other in a year just act like long lost buddies, unless you want to hook up with him and you've broken up with mark by then lol.
mark is closer to you and he does like you. he probably told you he liked another girl because he didn't wnat to admit to you that he liked you. but even if he was telling the truth, just because he likes another girl doesn't necessarily mean he won't go out with you. like if you're going out with him and see him flirting and hooking up with that other girl a lot, then you could forget about him. but you said that mark will never cheat on you though. ask out mark, or wait for mark to ask you out. if you ask mark out or if mark just never ends up asking you out, then you could consider john. i know that might sound like you're using john, but you're stuck between two guys and that's just the way it has to be (unless you don't want to go out with either one, which isn't exactly what you're going to do lol). mark would make a better "boyfriend" than john, not because he's sweeter or anything but because he's closer and won't cheat on you, etc... i don't know these guys, who knows! good luck on them!! :)
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