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Ok.. i need major help and it looks like your the right person to ask* So theres these 3 guys that i am totally in love with .. and i dont know which one to choose .. the one that i used to date his name is anthony and the other one that i started talking to is named derek and the other one my best friend just stopped talking to is sam. i like all of them and i dont know which one to chose cuz anthony is so sweet but hes too immature and he doesnt understand anything i say. and derek, hes my brothers best friend and hes 17 and im 14 .. i mean i like him a lot and he tells me everyday that he likes me .. but i dont know if i should see him cuz hes 17 .. thats 3 years older than me .. and plus my family doesnt really like me talking to him.. but i love talking to him.. im thinking maybe i should just be really good friends with him and not talk to him romantically..ya know ? and then sam - hes just soooo PERFECT.. hes more of the thug type of guy and gets into smoking and everything .. but i dont care about that - i love his personatlity..hes also 17 years old but i dont care about age.. so yeah what im saying is im stuck between guys ..and i know the only thing i can do is pick the one i see myself with and the one i like the most .. but i cant chose -and if i chose one .. the others will get hurt* so yeah i dont know what to do .. im sorry that this is soo long! but i need help obviously...
thankss!
14/female
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well think of it this way, you're luckier than some girls. some girls are still trying to get guys to like them and you have 3 guys who like you loL!! okay i'll shut up sorry.
all i can really do for you is say my opinion on who you can choose. like you don't have to follow my decision since i'm obviously a totally different person lol soo...here's what i think
i don't think you should go out with anthony, since you two have already gone out. you should try someone different, especially in a situation like this. plus even though he's sweet (the way you make it sound, all the guys sound sweet), he's still immature and you probably shouldn't risk having one. the other boys are older and hopefully more mature soo...i crossed out anthony.
now it's between derek and sam. you said for sam you didn't care about age but for derek you do? personally i would choose derek. it's not like i know him or anything but you make it sound like he's a bit better. he says he likes you and does sam even like you? *you never said if he did or not* you love talking to derek. and you said sam was perfect, but he sounds like a bad boy since he's a thug. i don't know, bad boys are more likely to force girls to do things they don't want to do, they want to get what they want. that's just ME!! you should probably just totally ignore this advice and make your own decision, but you asked me for advice and i gave you some. i hope it helped at least a little bit and good luckK in choosing the *perfect* guy!! :)
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