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The Post-Breakup
Hey, I dated this girl for a few months and broke up with her because I just didn't feel the same way. I told her we'd def. remain good friends but it doesn't seem like she wants that. I mean at first she took it well but then broke down and got all pissed and started doing a lot of things that would lead people to infer that I was a bad boyfriend and only cared about the sexual part of the relationship (def. not true.. since I wanted to make sure of everything before I got into that.. and since I wasn't sure it's a good thing I did that) and long story short -- it's been like 2 or 3 months and she still likes me, still talks about me with other people (makes our business theirs) and just pisses me off. She's not saying anything bad about me but definetly leading them to infer plenty of bad stuff. I've kind of broken off the whole 'friend' thing mainly cause she gets pissed at me for dumb stuff like not saying hi when she sees me but I don't see her... but she sees me... so why doesn't she say hi right? Hypocritical. So what should I do? F.Y.I. A direct approach always leads to arguements and I'm too lazy for those. This is the first time I've ever talked about her with anyone else unless it was her friends so as I would not be just like her... But now I am.
Peace.
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The thing about when she sees you and you don't say hi.. is this.. She still likes you, so she doesn't want to seem desperate.. if you say hi.. its not that SHE said hi just that she said hi BACK.. so she doesn't want to say hi.. its like a superority thing... she probably feels like shes not good enough to say hey to you because she is the one that likes you! ..
All i can say to do is TRY to be friends with her... forget about all the stuff she says.. & eventually she'll get over it.. and stop saying stuff.. yeah i wouldn't talk to her in this situatuion, she'll just get mad! Also, try talking to one of her friends about it... maybe not somewhere were other people can hear.. be smart about it if you do!!! Hope i helped!
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