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Boyfriend and friend too close.
Okay, My best friend and I have been freinds for about 5 years. She has always helped me with my boyfreind problems, and I have always helped her with hers. But this time, I'm a little scared. See, he (my boyfreind) went to school with her before he met me and before I met them both. They wern't really good freinds, but they were cool. He was always the guy that EVERY girl wanted (including her at the time.) But now I'm dating him, and they ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS talk to each other (but they claim its always about me.) See, I wouldnt mind that, but I really don't think its true. I mean, he talks to her more then he ever talks to me. I'll get online and he'll be on and not talk to me. Then I IM my friend and ask if they're talking to each other, and she tells me they are and when I ask her to send me the convo, she justs say it doesn't matter what they're saying and its nothing big. Then I'll call him or her, and they will tell me that either he or she is talking to to each other. And what really gets to me is that, my best freind has never done this before but now when me and my boyfreind fight, SHE TAKES HIS SIDE NO MATTER WHAT SHE KNOWS ABOUT THE SITITION. Well I confronted my boyfreind about this and all he said were they were really good freinds. But I don't think thats the case at all. I need your help! What should I do?
15/f
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i'm sorry to say this, but i think you and your boyfriend should break up. tell your boyfriend that if he and your friend keep on ignoring you and talking to each other, then you'll break up with him. tell him that he's treating her more like his girlfriend than you, and if he liked her better, why didn't he ask her out in the first place. and talk to your friend, tell her that you feel she is cheating on you with your boyfriend (tell that to your boyfriend too) because you have a right to think that with what's happening between them. list all of the things those two did together and tell your friend that real friends didn't do this to each other and to your boyfriend that this wasn't what a guy does to his girlfriend. if you break up with him, he might go out with your best friend. if that's what happens, i know it might hurt but it's not worth going out with a guy who likes you friend and "cheats" on you. and if they go out with no consideration for your feelings, sorry to say this but you should find a new friend who cares more about you than guys. according to what you said, it sounds like your guy and your friend sound A WHOLE LOT MORE than just good friends. i'm sorry about all of this :( i hope you work out something soon! good luckk!! :)
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