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two boys, just put it as that.
theres 2 guys, chris and andrew. im in 9th grade now but in 7th grade chris and i went out for a little over a year and we've been friends forever. like we went to preschool and everything. the whole nine years.. well chris started going out with this girl megan which is totally fine with me since we were still good friends and everything.. well they went out from the beginning of 8th to like the middle of 9th.. so they were pretty serious aout each other. but meg and i were fine and we cheer together so i have no problem with that. but chris and i have always still had chesmistry.. even when him and megan were going out you could just tell there was still something there. and now that they are broken up were starting to talk more and more and planning on hanging out and stuff.. well i really think im strting to fall for him again. but heres where andrew comes in.. he's a lot older then me.. 18 and graduated and i am 14 and a freshmen.. and he feeds me the lines and everything, but i dont know if he means it or not? and for the past weekend andrew would come over my house at like 2am and i would go out and sit in his car with him for like hours and we would make out and everything.. but the whole time we would listen to music and all the songs would just remind me of chris. but if chris and i were to get back together i dont want to start anything between megan and me (were not that good of friends but we have to cheer together and everything so i dont want to cause any cheer drama) but then if i get involved with andrew.. i dont know if he really likes me or not (he already asked me out and i said no) and plus, thats totally ILLEGAL. so i duno.. advice please?
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if i were you i'd go out with chris but THAT'S JUST ME! here are the reasons and i hope you sort it out.
why you should go out with chris:
a)you've been friends forever
b)he's your age and you've always been good friends, even when he was going out with someone else
c) you've gone out with him before too
why you shouldn't date chris:
a) it might upset megan and you don't want that
b) andrew...
why you shouldn't date andrew:
a) he's 18 and that is actually totally illegal, you won't get in trouble if you two are caught but HE WOULD (i'm not really sure it really applies to 14 and 18 year olds. like it'd def. apply to 50 year olds to 10 year olds lol but idk)
b) you totally think of chris when you're with him
c) chris..
why you should date andrew:
a) well you love him and you can do more stuff with him since he has a car
b) plus you two already make out and all that
you decide, and chris sounds better anyway since even if you two break up, you'll still be friends (pretty much...). in my opinion, it's better to go out with a good friend than like someone else since the friend is more trustworthy. but dating someone else is new and exciting, but it depends on what you want.
also wouldn't andrew be going to college next year anyway? then you wouldn't be able to see him, unless he goes to a college nearby. even then, he'd still be really busy with exams and all, unless he never studies and plans to fail college lol. well i told you some stuff about it and i hope you make a good decision (it doesn't have to be chris, just because I said so lol...you totally don't have to listen to me) good luck! :)
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