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ok.. there is this guy ( lets call him brad ) and we dated for about 3 weeks and then he ended it because he said we didnt see each other enough, even though he could have come see me so many times he just made other plans with his friends and blew me off. but he did say he wanted to go back out when he gets his car back and that he still really likes me. but now there is this other guy ( lets call him mark ) who has been my best friend for like the past year. at first there wasnt anything between us but we've been getting closer and closer and now i really like him. i still really like brad but i dont know if i should keep waiting on him or go for mark. because mark always comes to see me and is always there for me and would never do anything to hurt me. please tell me who i should go for!
*torn*
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think this to yourself, who do you like more, brad or mark? if you have an actual answer, then you know what to do then? if you chose brad, when he gets his car back then you can go out again and still be friends with mark. if you chose mark, then you know what to do. either way somebody will get hurt but if they love you, they'd understand.
if you don't have an answer to that question, the answer which is probably "i like them both the same!!!" then you COULD wait for brad, go out with him, and if he's not trustworthy or whatever and you break up with him, then go out with mark. that doesn't seem fair to mark though, it makes it seem as if he's your boyfriend only for until you get another one. make a list of all the reasons why you'd want to go out with brad and/or mark. put a rating of stars by each one about how good each reason is. then count up the stars and you've decided!! i know that's sort of mean, but you cannot go out with them both at the same time (that's just wrong, don't EVER do that) or you could not date either of them (which you obviously don't want lol). in my opinion, i'd choose mark since he seems really nice, a good friend, and more trustworthy than brad but it's up to youu :) good luckK!
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