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Question Posted Sunday May 1 2005, 12:03 pm

well me and this kid nick have become very good friends in the middle of the school year. and he was going out with this girl ( jessica)and i was going out with one of my guy friends( zach ) . well one friday me and my friend kt were walking around the street and ran into clay and tyler who were hanging out with nick . well me and katie hung out with them like the whole night. and i really didnt like zach anymore , i felt that we were better friends but i didnt tell anyone that. well i was kinda flirting with nick my friend katie said and i didnt even know it. well then on sunday my best friend christina slept over and i decide to break up with zach . and then i was helping her out with her home work and i asked if nick was online idk why then shes like why do you like him n im like no okay maybe okay yah . so then on monday morning when i was getting ready for school she told nick i like him . so the whole day he was like fooling around. so then he dumped jessica that monday. well then on tuesday he called to see if i was going to the talent show so we sat by eachother and at the end of it we kissed and we hugged but we werent going out the same thing happened on wensday after school then on thursday he asked me out then friday night me n all my friends hung out with some boys . me n nick were like by each other the whole night. well then that next morning his best friend (well my x boyfriend ) said nick sayed its over . so god i was kinda sad .but then nick tells me he cant go out with me cause he thinks mike still likes me and i dont like mike . me and mike went out and im done with him. then i was on the fone with him and we were talking and then miek n him talked afte i hung up and mike i/med n said okay nick has a reason not to go out with u . and im kinda getting aggervated cause mike wont stay out of my life .. then he goes back out with jessica then dumps hers ! well i dont know what to do cause i like him soo much and i love him as a friend and i dont wanna ruin the relationship that i have with him but i wanna be more cause god i can tell him anything hes always there for me and im always there for him . and he keeps telling people he kinda likes me and kinda likes jessica, and mike keeps getting into my whole life like everything like in the middle of my friends and the boys i like.and me and nick joke around all the time . but i dont know how he feels cause sometimes he lies ! well thank you for your time . but what should i do ?
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shortiebebe021 answered Sunday May 1 2005, 7:16 pm:
wow that was really long lol...well basically that mike is just getting in the way of your life and is just trying to start trouble. i think you should just try to ignore him and get it into nick's head that you do not like him AT ALL. tell mike to just mind his own business
you and nick seem to have some trust issues with each other, right? well after you persuade him that you don't like mike, that's over with you but he's telling people that he likes both you and jessica. you have to ask him straight up which one of you two he likes more and if he still wants to be with you. does he seem trustworthy and loyal enough not to cheat on you with jessica? it's normal to like 2 people at the same time, even if you already have a girlfriend, but why's he spilling it to everyone?
it seems as if he's not really THAT interested in you anymore. he really sounded like he was at the very beginning but after those trust issues, nick sort of just got a bit suspicious i guess. but just hold on to the relationship, try to avoid any fights, and just be like you've always been around him. try not to get TOO jealous or angry at jessica, guys hate it when their girlfriends do it (trust me, i've had experience lol). well i say that's what you do. good luck!!

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