|
My BFFL is becoming the slut of the 7th grade .. but were in
hey, ok well one of my friends has COMPLETELY changed, and i dont know what to do to help her. Shes jumpin from guy to guy and even was goin out wit like 3 at one time .. and there all like 1 or 2 years younger then her and in lower grades. I mean shes like disgrateing herself to them and becoming a whore, but i know shes not one! me and another one of my close friends tried talking to us but she went all insane-o and was like OMG YOU CALLED ME A WHORE!!!! when we totaly didnt we were just trying to tell her she was gonna get herself in mayjor trouble. Can you plz just help me find a way to talk to her? thanx a bunch gorgeous <3
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
i know this may not be what you want to hear, but i think your friend is changing for attention. the fact that she's dating 5th and 6th graders really proves that. and dating 3 guys (especially elementary school kids) is just wrongg... and it's obvious that she isn't going to change.
you can't really change her without talking to her (i can't think of any other ways sorry) but don't call her a whore this time. say "ok what is going on with you?? you've completely changed and we want the old you back, the one who doesn't date guys constantly and cheats. the one who doesn't go out with little boys. why are you doing this? is it for attention? well you've obviously gotten our attention, so can you please stop now?" and invite her to go shopping or something with you later. if that doesn't work, give it some time. a week later, if she still doesn't change, ask me for advice again...if she does it for too long, who knows what she'll do.
]
More Questions: |