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i think my best friend might like me
Hey..first of all..I've read some of your advice and it is GREAT! Anyway, to my question..I think my best friend might like me. Ever since he broke up with his girlfriend we have been doing more things together. Like when he is home alone he calls me over there to be with him and i cook food for him. And tonight we were at my friend's (his cousin) uncle's house and we were on the couch and he was laying down and I sat down and he put his feet on me and then I was layin down and he came and sat on me. Then when he was leaving he was like do u want to come with me and I was like I would but I cant leave her(my friend). And he offers to buy me things..and last weekend he didn't want me to go to my sister's and he wanted me to wait at home for him.. and his cousin lives by us and whenever I tell him I will be gone for the weekend hes like please dont go and im like hope is home youll have her and hes like no and im like y and he will go because and ill go because y and he goes because your more funner! what do you think, does he like me or not?
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Thanks so much hunnie!! I appreciate it! =D
Honestly, this is kind of hard to tell. I do have two ideas though. But how long were they going out? Did they just break up, or has it been awhile? That matters and I'll tell you why in just a second. But let me just say that I wouldn't get your hope up too soon. Because you don't want to stress over it or get yourself hurt.
If he had just recently broken up with his girlfriend, chances are he's leaning on you for support right now. He wants to feel loved and needed. I know all about this, I'm going through it right now. Maybe because he has been hanging out with his girlfriend and never got a lot of time with you, he's catching up with you since he's single again. In this case, you just need to be there for him and get him having a fun time. He probably needs time to think still. Give him the time he needs and when you feel that he should be healing from his break up, then you can start to flirt more. Don't rush things. I would just progress slowly until you guys know you're beyond friends.
If its been awhile, and you think he's over his ex, he probably likes you. Try having some fun! Haha. Try to flirt more and get closer. If he seems like he's enjoying that and doesn't seem distant afterwards then he probably likes you. Or you can try spending even more time with him. Just talking to him. And once you guys catch up on old times I would start asking him about relationships. You could ask him if it's hard to get over his old girlfriend. This way, you're not saying "So, are you over her yet?" You're mainly just letting him know that you're concerned and you care. It's like a nice way of saying are you over her yet. And if he replies with something like "Yeah, it doesn't really bother me anymore" then he's probably over it. Which means he'll probably want to ask you out sometime.
Keep in mind, he might just want to be friends. But I don't think so, because I'm just assuming that he's changed. Becoming more closer. Touching you, wanting you with him...that sorta thing. And I'm also assuming that you like him. Now, I might be wrong. But if you don't like him do not start flirting or asking him about certain things because that just wouldn't be fair to him. Instead, try acting a little more distant if he's coming on to you. And if you don't think that he's changed that much, he acted that way before, then you should start to think about just being friends. Overall, I think you should just hang out with him more that way you can really be sure. If you notice that he very close with you, very touchy, and has this cute shyness about him consider the option of him wanting to be more than friends. But as for now, don't worry yourself over it. Just take it one day at a time. Alright babe, see ya later. If you need anything else or want me to better explain my answer just give me a holler!
Love,
Mandee
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