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My two bff's told a really big secret of mine that I went out with this dude and then dumped him and they knew I didn't want anyone to know but they told all the girls in my class.They said it was an accident but it doesn't sound like it is and thier excellent liers we're cool now but I don't think i can ever trust them again am I over reacting. I mean this secret was huge the guy I went out with was kinda the freak of my class and is annoying. Please help.
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Your friends telling that big secret was probably not an accident. You need to stop telling your secrets to people for a while, its your best bet. If theres something that you don't want anyone to know, you can't tell people who have told your past secrets to people. This is not an overeaction, I would be upset, everyone would be, its only humanly to get upset about these situations. If your friends are telling you that you are overeacting, they aren't good friends. You probably can't trust them, and its good that you follow your instincts about that, don't risk your big secrets. Keep them to yourself until your friends show you that they can be trusted again. If you have a secret and just need to let it out, you can always tell anyone on Advicenators, or me. If people make fun of you, you can either be in denial and have eveyone follow you around laughing at you, or you can just admit it and then they can get a new rumor going and forget about yours. So, I suggest just saying, "yeah, we did date, big deal" and walk away, and don't act bothered by this.
Very sorry for not responding in time.
-TheTeenGirl
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