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HELP!!
i am a girl that is 14 and wheneva my boyfriend is around his friend zack he seems very distant to me! so wat should i do? i am not going to break up with him ! so back off the idea
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This doesn't warrant a breakup in the least...It's a simple miscommunication problem.
You might want to point this out to your boyfriend. He might not realize he's being distant. My guy's done that to me, brought me along to hang out with him and his friends and ignored me. I told him and he said he hadn't realized he'd been doing that and apologized profusely. Let him know he gets distant when you two are around his friend and that it bothers you.
Communication is KEY in all relationships, no matter how young or old you are, so keep it up!
He can't know what's going on in your head if you don't tell him. As much as we wish they could, guys cannot read minds, which is why we have to tell them what's on ours, and convince them to tell us what's on theirs.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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dont worry about it. guys are always like that around thier friends. it doesn't mean he doesn't like you. if you feel like your relationship is being neglected then ask him if you two can have some alone time together and he and zack can have thier own time. make sure you make it clear that you on't want him to give up zack as a friend and and that you don't hate zack. believe me if he thinks he is supposed to choose between you and zack he'll breakup with you in a heartbeat.
~rainbow
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