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lesbian?
i'm a sixteen year old girl and i think i might be a lesbian, but i'm really confused and when a guy friend of mine asked me out a few days ago i just said yes because i'm so confused and i guess i was flattered but i'm really not attracted to him. i don't want to hurt his feelings or freak him out and i'm just so lost. what should i do?
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End it immediately and be honest with him why. Tell him you were struggling with it and you've been very confused lately, and you shouldn't have said yes. Obviously its not his fault, but you shouldn't be dating anyone right now in this mental state.
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The sooner you end it the better. You don't need to come out to him if you don't want to. He doesn't need to know why you don't want to go out with him, only that you don't want to period.
Just tell him you made a mistake, that you felt caught off guard and you didn't want to hurt his feelings. Tell him you're sorry but you don't want to go out with him. If he asks why, tell him you only like him as a friend.
Keep it short. And don't put it off. The longer this goes on, the more hurt he'll be once it does end.
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