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Question Posted Thursday April 28 2005, 3:20 pm

Hi Karen,
Here's an update - not a good one though I'm afraid - I was so excited but now it's all fallen to pieces.
I went out last night and saw the Australian in the club we always go to.
He walked past me twice and didn't say hi but I'm pretty sure he didn't see me.
Anyway, so after the club we went to The Magic Roll becuase my friend wanted to. I sttod in the queue and saw him sitting in the window with a girl. I didn't want to go and say hi because I thought it would be too keen and didn't want to interrupt him with the girl. He walked out about five minutes later and walked straight past me-I pretended I didn't know he was there because I was in a conversation with my friend but he looked at me (I could see out of the corner of my eye that he saw me) and just walked out with the girl.
Was I just being used? I feel that the other day was just a regime that he does to every girl. But he made me feel so special. Did he not say hello because he thought I hadn't seen him with the other girl so wanted to make a quick exit? Does he like me but knows nothing can happen now because I'm still with my boyfriend and so he's just fooling around with other girls? Or was I just another person he was trying to get into bed but now he knows he can't he's moved onto the next. Did he just not see me there? Could he just not be bothered? Is he just a user? After being on such a high all last week and and anticipating the next time I was going to see him, I now feel so low, so unnattractive, so unwanted and really used. Am I being over the top? Was he embarrassed to see me there as he didn't want me to see him with another girl? I just don't know. I feel really really down. Help!
Thanks Karen
Daisy


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karenR answered Thursday April 28 2005, 3:47 pm:
Did it look like he was serious about her or anything? Could have been just a friend...could have been anything I guess. He souonded so wonderful though. Let's not give up to soon. Maybe he just didn't have time for an explanation or something. I would call him and see if he mentions it. Or text mess. or something. Are you still on for friday? I think before things get serious you need to have a long talk with him...explain things about your situation...see what is up with him and all that. I would mention the girl you seen him with during the conversation at some point if he doesn't bring her up. Make sure you start out being honest about things with each other. I sure hope you find that she was a friend needing a ride or something! Call him up, get together and talk. Let me know what happens, I have my fingers crossed for you and hope all turns out well. Don't put it off and be miserable okay? Hope to hear good news soon! :) Karen (YG)

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