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X,Y,Z,A,B,C AND ME!
This year everything started out great..It was september and it was me and Xand Y and Z. Anyways Z starts being a jerk so her and Y get into an arguement. Then comes A, she joins are group but by November is gone. Then second semester B comes and everything is all good. But by the beggining of March trouble cpomes at us...we all begin hurting eachother and ruining eachothers lives. Then every thing is all good. But by the end of the month things go again...this time C gets involved and tells me not to be there friends and that X is a good friend but not very trustworthy. But by april things are good. Then comes the blow out..it was me and x and it was bad. It went on for two weeks. Then finnally we resolved it. But once again X proves to be un trustworthy. She spills my secret to B causing B to be angry adn causing Y to hate me too. Si one night I tell my mom. She tells me that I probaley do some of the things I say, she tells me that All of us are stirring up trouble. But she also tells me not to be friends with Y and B which I onehundred percent agree on. But she begins to lecture me telling me that I need to act like the good girl I am and then she tells me to treat people rightly so I told her that obviously B and Y don't want to be treated very well. She then continues lecturing telling me that I don't learn any thing. But my question is should I listen to C and my mom?? And Should I drop Y and B as friends?? Also what should I do with X, I can't trust her anymore and it really hurts because I fell like everyone is Against me. I feel so horrible and I have no clue what I should do. Please help!
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Ok im pretty sure i understand that.
Look, you treat people how you want to be treated, but that doesnt mean if someones being mean to you your alowd to be mean back. Being mean to someone because they "deserve" it or not makes you just as bad as them.
It takes real maturity to look at a situation like this that your in and say to the people hurting you that you deserve alot better than how they are treating you, then walk away.
Theres billions of people in the world and you can make new friends who are much more genuine and treat you right.
Don't drop your friends because i said so, or because someone else said so, drop them if you dont want to be around them anymore and if you think you deserve alot better.
Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
P.S Every person in life has to deal with good and bad friends in life, so dont feel horrible about everything, decide whats right for you and think on the positive side of things.
Good luck with your friends.
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