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This boy..
This guy and I are friends, and we have gone out twice before. I am entering eighth grade soon, same with him. His name is Kyle. He seems like a great guy to start a 'serious' realtionship with. He is EVERYTHING I have been looking for. I wrote him a note maybe two weeks ago. He didn't write back or anything. It said like I really like you.. etc. you know the drill. I mean seriously I am like totally in love with him. I don't know what to do. Talk to him, go along with everything[which he really hasn't said a word to me]. Likr I need help. What do I say to him. Summer is coming and I don't really plan on having a boyfriend for summer. But like during school, maybe two weeks before school. I am just so confused on what to do. Please Help, and don't pass this question up.
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A "serious" relationship entails having one over the summer. If you were truly commited to wanting to be in a "serious" relationship with him then you would be willing to have one over the summer too.
If you have gone out twivce before, why didn't you stay togheter? Honestly, I say ditch the kid. You are too young to be worrying about petty things like what boy likes you and when you want a "serious" relationship. Besides, he didn't write back, and that upset you, didn't it? If he liked you back he would have either said something to you or wrote back to you, so I don't think there is a chance that he might like you as of right now.
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do u talk to him at all? well its kinda rude he didnt even write back.. but when u see him in scool let him know your interested, smile when you see him and push him a little bit and sometime just ask how is day is and what he thought about the note.. goodluckxox
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Just be upfront about it and ask him if he read your note and if he did would he be interested in pursuing a relationship with you. Just ask him in person and DO NOT ask him over AIM or another IM service. If he says he'd rather just be friends try not to dwell on it and move on - it may seem like there will never be another Kyle, but you've got your whole live ahead of you dear, chances are that you'll meet someone infinitely more perfect than Kyle sooner or later. Be confident and don't stress over it too much because no matter what happens it's not the end of the world.
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if he's what you want, see if he likes you. if he does;go for it.
if not; live & let live.
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