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thanks for the advice but heres the thing. you just made me realize i am kinda a hipocrite or however u spell it. because yeah i feel left out but i am not gonna even try to say anything cause ive seen my other friends try to tell them that and they go oh my god ur so gay and get mad...and when one of my friends got left out i kinda did the same thing.. i hope that doesnt make me a bad friend? but i cant help it..wow i feel terrible not but someitmes i try to leave my other friends out cause they can get reallly annoying and i bet i get annoying to my friends and its just a whole big circle.. Please HELP!!!
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I understand that you're going through a lot of peer pressure to act the same way as these friends. No, I don't think you're a bad friend: You're just under a lot of pressure to be flippant and mean to the girls who try to get included. If these 'friends' are treating you this way, I think you need to get some better friends who don't pressure you into acting this way and don't make you feel awful and left out. I'm sure that you can do it. I've been in situations when my friends seem a little annoying to me too, and it makes me want to exclude them sometimes, but you need to remember: these are the people you turn to when you're down, the people who cheer you up, the people who really care about you. If they don't treat you that way, you need new friends.
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