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Question Posted Tuesday April 19 2005, 5:38 pm

i need to know the best way to get someone to talk about the way they really feel and be able to comfort them if that something makes them feel bad.Much Help Please

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vickiooos answered Monday April 25 2005, 8:46 pm:
dont push. it will make then feel uncomfortable and insecure. just try talking to them and letting them know that you are there for them (but dont suffocate them). make them feel safe in telling you anything and that you won't bail on them or tell any of their secrets. if they do tell you, the first step in comfort is for them to want to be comforted. so if they aren't ready to start getting over things or feel better then there's not that much you can do except support than and ease them into comfort

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