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First loves suck...
Hey this is kind of long... sorry..
Ok so I became best freinds with this guy, and we were super close. Then, the girl he likes started to like him out of nowhere. I found myself falling in love with him and it was totally out of my control. Over the summer they didn't talk much but when it came around to school time they started to talk here and there. Later I became freinds with the girl (I'll call her Maddie, and the guy Andrew) and she seemed pretty cool. Maddie knew I had fallen in love with him but she kind of acted like it was a game. Since I cared about Andrew so much I decided to help them get together for his happiness. Eventually I find out that he had liked me before during the sumer but it was too late and he asked Maddie out. They have been going out for about 5 months now and everyday me and Andrew's freindship is slipping because of her. And lately she has turned into this major B**** and shoves it in my face that she has him and is being really self centered. So basically my best freind is starting to turn into a distant memory and I talk to him for like 3 minutes each day at school compared to the 3 hrs it used to be. I can't give you the full effect of how much this had hurt me, but I gave you a summary of it. I found out like a year ago today she liked him and my life has been a living hell since that point. And all I want is him but it seems like they will never break up. I don't really know what kind of advice I am asking for, but it felt good to let a little of it out, please give me some suggestions because I don't know what to do anymore...
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
What I would do is try to keep the friendship with Andrew up and ignore what Maddie is doing to you. If she thinks she's hurting you, she'll just keep it up. Good luck.
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