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ok... i liked this guy [matt] for three years - and my friends finally knocked some sense into me that hes no good and he dosent like me bakc and al that stuff... and my best friend [ashley] is mad at me because i didnt listen to her advice and i listened to my other friend [andrew] - we get into fights all the time and i dont want her to hate me over this too... and on top of that she says ive been acting really depressed since all this has happened -about a week or so now-.. uugh i hate love.. what should i do?!?!
xoxo morgan
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Well,
First of all, Morgan, Ashley isnt that great of a friend, and will be that way forever. She cant change that. Her telling you how to feel? Not cool. Ashley is blunt. She is quick to say "get over him" without asking how you feel about him. With andrew, he knows everything. and hes such a good friend you dont have to worry about fighting with him. This is where I say that Guys are such better friends than girls. Theyll never, ever hurt you. And if they do, it's mostly unintentional. Like you said last night, andrew knows you better. Ashley doesnt. He's going to know how to cheer you up and everything. Ashley may just bring you down more. As much as this sucks for you, maybe you should rethink your friendship with Ashley. If you guys are always fighting, why stay friends? Dont let some pact you took ruin your life. Go up to her and tell her that she doesn't know you as well as she thinks, that youve changed, and things have changed. If she gets pissed, than somethings really wrong with her. You're a good friend, Morgan. You dont need someone to bring you down.
Good luck!
Jenn
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