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Question Posted Thursday April 14 2005, 8:03 pm

my best friend, Deana decided to go punk and if you knew her you would know that she could but i tried to talk her out of it or expain to me why and all she said was that happy people are preppy and she doesnt want to be happy nemore and i was kinda fighting with her online and then shew put up an away message that was like "if you dont like it then y0u werent me friend to begin with*" and i think that was directed at me so i called her and i tried to have a normal conversation with her and she wasnt really responding much so i asked her why her away message also said she was almost in tears and shes was just like "i have to go eat now.. ill call u bak later" but she never calls me bak and i was just expressing me opinion.. i mean she only likes one punk band and loves rap and dresses preppy nd i dont see why she sees punk people as only sad when they really arent and now im afraid shes mad at me and its not fair and i canty even see her in school tomorrow because over the summer the school district spilt up so now we go to different schools

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TheTeenGirl answered Thursday April 14 2005, 9:12 pm:
You have been her friend from the beginning, know this. You were her friend when she was happy and herself. But now shes decided that she wants to be something that will put her in the center of attention. You warned her that you like her when shes herself, but she refuses and wants to do this. All you basically can do is let her go and let her take her life somewhere here she will regret it. This has to suck, I know what this is like, to lose a best friend to popularity, sex, drugs. But your friend was probably putting on a sad act for you on the phone, trying hard to make herself unhappy, which isn't smart at all. You did not only express your opinion to her, you tried to save her, but talk to her again. Tell her how much you want the old Deana back, the one you knew. If she still doesn't care to go back, then shes off to the path of a bad life.



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hitler_the_goat answered Thursday April 14 2005, 8:54 pm:
she is a poser, pure and simple.
just wait till the grunge phase comes.
-hitler

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