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Please..Its Long But Please I dont know Whats gunna happen f
Okay my boyfriend(Steve) means alot to me and i mean alot to him. I care about him so much w/ like everything i've got, i am so afraid of losing him, me and him have been thru way too much for us to break up now. We've been together for like 9 months now and he has become the love of my life, the person i wanna be with forever, he has this friend(Shana) and they've been freinds for like mad long before i ever came in the picture and i dont want them to stop talkin but at the same time its like i am VERY VERY jealous of the girl, i dont know why i am but i am. Its really weird cause theres other girls he talk to and i really dont care about them, but her i do, and he's going into the air force in 75 days and i know for a fact that i wont do nothin wrong while hes gone , and i trust him but what if something happens and he finds someone else and doesnt come back for me.. In the past i have done shit that maybe gives him a reason to not trust me like i cheated on him ONCE and never again and i lied to him about cigarettes, but after all that and we talked about it i dont think i could lie or cheat on him again, the reason why i know why i wouldnt cheat is because that was like at the beginning of the relationship and all the shit we've been thru after that happened i dont think i could do that to him, hes the reasom why i made it thru all of it(it was a big mother-daughter-moms bf thing).. i love him alot, i dont even think LOVE is the exact word but its the closest. He is the best tbig thats stepped into my life and i am afraid of losing him, we also argue alot too, and we both accuse each other of things but then we talk it out. please what do u think is the future for us?
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Your clearly very worried about this. it seems to me you have one choice. you have to come straight with him, ask him how he feels for you. if you feel the answer isn't impresive but he is still saying he loves you, you can ask him about Shana, but whatever you do, DON'T sound patronising!! however he may tell you he loves you and give an impressive answer . . . if he does you shouldn't really worry about Shana. if after you're still feeling jealous then don't be afraid to ask him. if he tells you, you have nothing to worry about then trust him!! Good Luck i hope it works out... let me know how it goes!!
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You guy's need to trust each other a little more.
If you don't trust him then you don't have a chance of making the relationship work.
Of course you're jealous of his best friend. They are close and he's probably known her longer. It's natural. If he wanted to be with her though he would be. He's with you, so trust that you are the one he wants.
You will have to trust him when he goes to the air force too. Same as he has to trust you. Good luck :)
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That you to big heads...
WELL IN YOUR CASE...BIG NOSED BEN-YA BEN-YA SELF AND HIS CRISPY SELF WILL STAY TOGETHA...BECAUSE YOU TO DONT SEE WHAT I SEE WHEN I LOOK IN EACH OF YOUR...WORDS...BECAUSE I KNOW YALL REALLY DO LOVE EACH OTHER...AND THAT U NEEDA STOP TRIPPIN ON HIM JUST LIKE HE NEEDS TO STOP TRIPPIN TO!!
BUT THIS IS JUST COMING FROM SOMEONE N CHINA!
REMEMBER 2 THINGS:
1 Thingd always happen as there suppose too.
2 You cant see what other people do because you can never see through there eyes
oh yeah and dont make him choose! Dont ditch your friends either!
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The Air Force.. wow. Somehow I get the impression that he is older then you. You seem to be the one who is jealous of her and does he know this? If not maybe you should talk to him about it and hear his side of the story. Honestly you aren't going to see him all that much if he is going into the Air Force.. Boot Camp, Training, and serving if he does.. A friend of mine was dating a guy and she had been with im 4 years on and off and when he went to the Navy .. It only lasted a few months and that was it. They still talk but it was hard with her going to college and him going to the Navy. Love is a funny thing, but if its real you won't loose him.
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I think you need to talk again. I mean sort things out. Find out if he really really liked this girl you're talking about. In my part, I wasn't even lucky in love but you are luckier since your love became your boyfriend. Try to trust each other more then things will really fit out.
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