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alright, i asked you about my boyfriend of a year and a half and you gave awesome advice...but i've already done that. we went skiing together with a bunch of friends a few weeks back (i didn't give you ages last time, we're only 15) and i had a long talk with him then. he honestly seemed to feel horrible about the whole situation...but things didn't change. i had another <3 to <3 with him a few days ago, and it seemed to have an even greater impact. i trust him, and i'm pretty sure he cares about me...but i'm having a very hard time trusting for some reason, that this time will be different. should i just wait it out? its also very frustrating for us to try to talk one on one, because we both have over protective parents who do not trust us alone in a room together (which isn't justified, we've never done anything to lose their trust) so one-on-one conversations are limited to the phone with the exception of a few times whenever we go on trips for our church...which is definitely not often enough. sorry this is so long, i appreciate all your help! we need more people like you around to help instead of 13 year old girls, keep it up! <3
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Try your best to trust. Wait it out a little longer. If thing's don't change soon then you'll have to make some tough descisons.
15 is a rough age. You both will be going through many changes. There's gonna be rough patches....most of which you'll be able to overcome. I wish you luck...you know where to find me if you wanna talk. My email address is also on my column, feel free to use it if you want privacy from being printed on column. Hope all goes the way you want it to.
I do hope you get some time alone together soon. It is nice though that you both seem to have parents that care! Even if they are a little over protective. Let me know how it works out with you. :)
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